When effort doesn’t match outcome, what do you do next?
You did the work, built the case, followed the rules—and still got passed over, rejected, or ignored. Welcome to life, where perception trumps proof, and where “fairness” is optional.
In The Facts Don’t Matter: How to Stay Sane When Truth Feels Optional, Dr. Jim Petersen pulls back the curtain on the everyday absurdities of boardrooms, classrooms, neighborhoods, and families. From college admissions to corporate reviews, from DEI workshops to family dinners, you’ll see how often optics win over outcomes, and, more importantly, how to stop replaying the unfairness and start reclaiming your peace.
Turn Frustration Into Freedom
Every short essay closes with a TFDM Tool Kit so you can learn practical steps to let go sooner, live lighter, and move forward stronger.
Spot the moment when persuasion is pointless and peace is possible.
Recognize when systems reward narrative over numbers.
Protect your energy when rules bend for some but not for all.
Choose connection over correction in family, friendships, and work.
About the Author
Jim Petersen, PhD
Jim Petersen, PhD is a lifelong educator, business leader, and coach dedicated to helping leaders think strategically, act decisively, and live with purpose. He serves as CEO of Diversified Professional Coaching (DPC), President of the Professional Business Coaches Alliance (PBCA), and Chair of Leadership at The American College of Financial Services.
Jim has trained and mentored thousands of executives, advisors, and entrepreneurs worldwide, blending decades of business experience with a passion for developing leaders who can thrive in times when the facts often fail to carry the day. When he isn’t teaching, coaching, or writing, Jim enjoys time with family, mentoring emerging leaders, and exploring projects that challenge conventional thinking.